Thursday, February 25, 2010

Coupon Dad's Ultimate Complete Unabridged Guide to Saving Every Possible Penny

A penny saved is better than a penny earned, because you don't pay taxes on what you save!


Anybody who knows me well is aware that I am a coupon fiend. I think it started when Drew was born, because I didn’t like spending all that money on baby food and diapers, and now it is totally out of control. Unlike many coupon junkies, I don’t track my spending in a spreadsheet (because that takes time and would only serve to confirm what I already know), or keep my coupons in alphabetical order (that is just plain silly—the store doesn’t stock its shelves alphabetically).

Recently, Aimee was “bragging” about my savings and promised to share my tips with her friends, so since today is a snow day, I have some time to share… If you make it to the end, I’ll be impressed.

1. Buy the Entertainment book. We hardly ever go out, but just the grocery chain coupons and dry cleaning coupons pay for the book itself, and then I post to craigslist.org and “trade” coupons I won’t use for the ones I will. This year I traded with two different people and ended up with an extra $40 in Shop Rite coupons for the cost of a pair of stamps.

2. Subscribe to the Sunday newspaper. We receive three different Sunday papers each week for a total cost of $4.35 a week. Most weeks I clip over $100 in coupons, and on average, use 30-40% of them. Additionally, you’ll be aware of sales in all your local stores like Target and Best Buy with their weekly ads. This article from the Wall Street Journal, totally supports using coupons as a way to save during these difficult economic times.

3. Let friends know you clip coupons. Perhaps you can trade the coupons you don’t clip for the ones they don’t clip. I have several friends who share coupons with me because I don’t use the pet coupons and they don’t use the diaper coupons.

4. Use web-based blogs to be aware of matchups and links to printable coupons for things you wouldn’t necessarily be looking to buy. Yeah, they basically let you print money right off the internet. Yesterday, in about three minutes I printed two Dannon coupons, a Coffemate liquid coupon and a Cinnamon Toast Crunch coupon to save $4.00 twenty minutes later at Shop Rite. Each of the twelve yogurts I bought cost $0.22, the liquid creamer cost $0.24, and the huge box of Cinnamon Toast Crunch which included a pull-back racer that is sure to create some drama at the breakfast table for only $2.00. I like www.forthemommas.com, www.livingrichwithcoupons.com, and learned a lot when our little ones were young on www.babycheapskate.com. Additionally, I visit www.dealnews.com at least 6 times a day. Their team reports coupon codes and sales on any item from electronics to toys around the clock. I find it to be handy especially around the holidays or when planning for a tv or computer purchase.

5. Be organized. I have a plastic check organizer that I use to store my coupons. I organize it by store aisle, so when I go in the juice aisle and see that Juicy Juice is on sale, the coupons I might use are easy to find, because they are right next to the Capri Sun, Gatorade, canned fruit, and raisin coupons.

6. Clip every coupon you might ever use, but don’t let coupons determine your shopping list. Yes, this means you might clip coupons you won’t use because most expiration dates are around 8 weeks. But most popular items go on sale at some point during those 8 weeks, which is the time you want to use your coupon. This is a “matchup” and it is the reason most of the (brand name) cereal in our pantry cost between $0.50-$1.00. In addition to the printable coupons I mentioned earlier, I bought four packages of Go-Gurt(which is not a normal purchase for us, because it is usually $3.29 for 8 tubes) on sale for $1.49. With each package I used a $0.35 coupon (each doubled to $0.70) making my cost only $0.79 per package. That is more than a 75% savings. The expiration date isn’t for 4 weeks and you can freeze them. If I had used the coupons when I clipped them, I would have saved the same $0.70, but I would have still spent $2.59.

7. Have a large pantry and extra freezer available when there is a super deal. We currently have 36 boxes of cereal in our pantry. Ok-I recognize that is a little bit insane, but with 5 of us eating cereal every day, we do go through a ton. Yesterday, post cereals were on a super 4 day sale (limit 4 boxes) for $1 per box. I used two $1 off 2 coupons making my cost $0.50 per box for Alpha Bits and Honeycombs. Last week, I bought 4 boxes of Froot Loops and 1 box of Corn pops for a $0.05 profit! Each box was on sale for $1.99, had a “$1.00 off this box” peel sticker coupon on it, and there was a “buy 5, get a $5.00 off your next shopping order coupon” promotion.

8. Take advantage of promotions and rebates, and the rules associated with them. Anytime there is a store promotion for buying multiples to save additional money off another shopping order, I just figure the net cost to determine if it is worth it. I purchase diapers pretty much exclusively at Shop Rite for several reasons, but primarily for the baby buck program which gives you $10 back after each $100 in baby purchases. Although their regular prices are not competitive with superstores like Walmart or Sams Club, their sale prices are, and the additional 10% in baby bucks make it a no brainer. Plus a lot of supermarkets double coupons up to $1.00 when most superstores do not. To make this deal even sweeter, the Baby Bucks are figured based on regular prices, not sale prices. A few weeks ago Pampers big boxes were on “sale” for $20 per box. With seventy size 5 diapers for $20, that costs nearly .29 per diaper, which isn’t great, but not bad either. Consider that Proctor and Gamble had two promotions I qualified for because I also bought some bounty paper towels, I would receive a coupon for $10 off a future shopping order and a $10 Visa gift card by mail. Taking the paper towels out of the equation since they were a good deal on their own at less than $0.50 per roll, my net cost for the two big boxes was actually only about $11.80! I spent $40, saved $20 on the promotions, $4.00 by using two $2 off coupons, and since the regular price on the big boxes is $25.99, I earned 52% of my baby buck redemption, which equates to $5.20. That’s a lot of numbers, but the end story is 140 diapers for $11.80, less than 9 cents a diaper. Lets see Walmart compete with that!

9. Know your prices, and utilize unit price as your method of comparison. I learned a long time ago that although that huge box of diapers at Target seems like a great deal, the unit price isn’t always competitive with the smaller packages when paired with coupons. Yesterday, I compared the Pull-Ups unit prices at Shop Rite (yes, I brought my calculator with me). I had to do my own calculations because the unit price on the shelf will not include the “price plus discount” or take in to account my coupons. Three different sized packages were on sale. The 50 ct box was $19.99, the 44 ct. was $16, and the 26 ct. was $9.99. Funny, everyone always thinks buying the bigger package is the better deal, but the unit prices tell a different story, especially if you have enough coupons to buy multiple small packages.
50 ct = 40 cents each 44ct =36.4 cents ea. 26 ct = 38.4 cents ea.
After applying $2.00 off coupons, however…
50 ct = 36 cents each 44ct =31.8 cents ea. 26 ct = 30.7 cents ea.
10. Don’t feel obligated to a particular brand or store. There are only a few brands that we buy exclusively. Melitta Coffee (mmmm…) and Strohman Whole Wheat Bread (Aimee’s request-and I love her very much, even though the regular price is $3.49 a loaf!) are the only brand name items we’ll buy when not on sale, but usually I stock up enough so that doesn’t become necessary. Bread freezes easily and defrosts on the counter in a hour or so, so when it is on sale, I’ll buy whatever will fit in the freezer.

11. Stock up on your regular weekly meals. We keep things pretty simple. We eat chicken nuggets with french fries and pasta with Perdue turkey meatballs once every week. When those things are on sale, I stock up. After sales and coupons, each of those dinners costs less than $3-4 for the entire family, which obviously can keep our grocery bills down.

12. Let the weekly ad dictate your menu. After considering our pantry and regular meals, Aimee and I plan our meals around what is on sale. I have a shopping list that is basically a categorized table for each aisle of the store so when I make the list everything is written in the appropriate aisle, and I never need to double back. This may seem almost as crazy as my coupon organization, but it only took a few minutes to make, and I’ve been using it each week for years without having to double back to an aisle because I forgot something. Some people say I have too much time on my hands, but maybe I have so much time because I saved so much time in the store by not doubling back!

13. Buy only items on sale. Yesterday, the only things I bought that were not on sale were bananas and milk. Again, the large pantry and freezer are needed for this to work effectively. Each week, there are always some meats on sale, there are always some canned goods on sale, and always some type of yogurt on sale. I let the ad determine our meals brand selection and let the coupons help us conserve our resources.

14. Play fair. Don’t use expired coupons or try to slip a coupon in that isn’t for the exact product listed. Be nice to the cashier and keep your buy-one-get-one coupons on the top of your pile so they can keep an eye out for those items as they ring up your order. He or she will likely need to take note of the price so they can write it on the coupon. By alerting them, it will speed up the order and the gesture in most cases is appreciated.

15. Take your kids shopping with you. Get them used to hearing the phrase, “It’s not on the list”, early and often and they won’t hassle you for the cereal with the cool prize. I’ll never forget the time Drew wanted Danimals Crush Cups and saw they had the yellow sale tag and said, “Dad, Crush Cups are on sale, do we have a coupon?” The first word Drew ever read was the big 3 foot letters that spelled out B-R-E-A-D in the front corner of the store. Hopefully, he’ll learn from his Dad, just like I learned from mine that coupons are a great way to extend your budget. My Dad did it way cooler than me; he only brought the coupons he needed in a small inconspicuous envelope, whereas I carry my 8.5” x 11” shopping list and bright yellow coupon caddy every time I set foot in the market.

Yesterday, my total shopping order was just over $100.00. If I hadn’t used a single coupon and just paid full price for everything, the total would have been over $250. I know that everyone saves a bit each time they shop by buying things on sale, but I really think this extra effort saves our family significantly and I hope this post shows how relatively easy it is to do.



Me with the ShopRite mascot, Scrunchy.

Monday, February 22, 2010

Photobucket

I just love these Christmas pics of the kids so much, I used Photobucket to make them usable year round. See? They're black and white. Now you have no idea that they were wearing bright green and red Christmas pjs, do you?? *wink*

I'll use this as a siggy photo for one of the message boards I'm on.


Sunday, February 7, 2010

Valentine's Day Photo Shoot

Valentine's Day is almost here, so I dressed the kids up, clipped up my oh so professional pink fleece blanket backdrop, set up my lighting equipment that I don't know how to use, and had a little photo session!


I'm actually really happy with the results. I took Emily's pictures on Friday when the other children were sleeping so they wouldn't bother her, and we were able to get some really cute smiles out of her. Drew, Carter, and Brenna got their pictures taken during the snow storm on Saturday. Brenna and Carter were not too cooperative at first, but when I mentioned CANDY they had no problems sitting together and holding hands for me! :)




































































Saturday, January 30, 2010

Squiddly-dogs!

We found this idea in our recent issue of Family Fun Magazine, and last night Gee-off made them for the kids.


Simply push 4 pasta noodles through chunks of hotdog and boil them up - an instant hit!!!



Brenna chowing down (in her Cinderella headband of course!)

Drew ate his so fast, in this pic he had already moved on to the grilled cheese but wanted a pic of himself anyway!

Carter likes it! No surprise there! :)



In other news, everyone is finally feeling better. Unfortunately both of Emily's nurses got the bug too, and Emily has been having diarrhea for about a week now. It does seem to be easing up for the past two days though and we have a sample out to the lab just in case. I'm just glad we were able to keep things under control at home and keep her out of the hospital!!



Sunday, January 24, 2010

Sick of being sick...

So, we all took turns being sick this week with the 24 hour stomach bug. It hit some of us worse than others, but I missed work twice, Drew missed 2 1/2 days of school, and none of us ate a regular meal for dinner all week.

Emily is still on continuous feeds, gradually increasing volume.

This picture was taken during Carter and Brenna's "hangover". They'd been up all night, and finally could rest. If you look carefully, you can see that Brenna has her Fairy costume AND mittens and hat on under the blanket.

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Keto Diet Anniversary

On this day last year, Emily was admitted to CHOP to start her initiation week on the ketogenic diet. You can follow this link to read my posts on how it all began. (Thanks to our fellow keto family for the reminder!!)







We had a very rocky start, the diet really caused her blood sugars to drop to dangerously low levels, and she got 2 stomach viruses in the first 2 months. Blech!! At that time, I was very pessimistic about any kind of success on the diet.







But once she was able to keep down the required formula, the diet began to work it's magic. Emily started having completely seizure free days in March and went SF for 103 days!! Her spasms have crept back on and off since then, but mostly off. We rarely see any spasms at all, and if we do, they are so mild we can hardly identify them!







Freedom from seizures has also made a miraculous difference in her development. Last year, Emily slept almost all the time. She was eating a bit by mouth, rolling some, and smiling more often. Now, she has much more awake time, she's holding her head up, her vision has improved - she focuses on objects and people and often makes eye contact, she is smiling all the time and laughing, she rolls, lifts her head up and props herself up on her arms while on her belly, she holds toys, puts them (and anything else she can get in her hands on) in her mouth, and in the past month she has started sitting UNSUPPORTED!!!!!! Unbelievable.







We are so thankful to the CHOP staff for continuing to recommend this diet and we're so glad we gave it a try. Emily has made such amazing progress and it is so awesome to watch her getting stronger and happier each day.


Emily
January 2009 (with my Aunt Nancy)



Emily
January 2010 (with Carter, Brenna, and Uncles Mark and Evan)











Thursday, December 31, 2009

2009 - Our Year in Review

Drew




This year, Drew started playing recreational sports. He started with T-ball in the spring and really enjoyed it. This fall, he played soccer and loved it. He was a real asset to the team! He spent his 4th summer at Tall Pines Day Camp where one of the highlights was singing "Take Me Out to the Ballgame" on the big stage for the whole camp! After graduating half day Pre-K, Drew moved up to full day Kindergarten and made the transition like a champ. He's doing extremely well in school, and is reading well above grade level - his teacher even has him helping to "teach" some of the other students as a challenge for him. Amazing. You know the teachers in us are so proud! This year, he has lost 4 teeth, had his 3rd set of ear tubes placed, and his adenoids removed. He had his first official birthday party with friends at a local indoor jump/bounce arena when he turned 6 in December. He also got to watch all 6 Star Wars movies with his Dad and is now a bonafide Star Wars fan! He continues to be a big help with his brother and sisters (most of the time) and really loves to play the Wii.






Carter




This year Carter has grown so much. Physically, he is still our peanut, and weighs the least of the crew. By the summer, we were realizing that he wasn't talking nearly as much as we thought he should be and within weeks of starting speech therapy, he started talking up a storm. And now, he's finally saying his own name, which he absolutely refused to say for quite awhile. He also started physical therapy because he was falling a lot. He has flat feet and drags his right foot a tiny bit because he doesn't bend his knees like he should. In the last few months, he is definitely falling less, and his balance has started to improve. He is still a fabulous eater - loves his veggies. There are really only two things I can think of that he will NOT eat. Surprisingly, they are macaroni and cheese and oatmeal!! He can count to 10, but won't say 4. He can repeat all of the alphabet letters and recognizes most of them. He knows some shapes and colors too. He is not quite ready for the potty yet. In fact, both Carter and Brenna were very interested in sitting on the potty for awhile. Then I told them that they would only get Smarties if they actually went in the potty, and their enthusiasm faded. :)




Brenna




This year Brenna has become such a little lady! She loves anything Dora, Diego, Princesses or My Little Ponies! She gets thrilled over shoes and boots, and anything "dancy" (fancy) or dress-up. She can also count to 10, and can say and recognize all of the alphabet letters. She has been right on target or ahead with all of her milestones and skills and has not needed any Early Intervention services. Brenna is showing signs of potty training readiness. She will sit and do #1 occasionally, and ver rarely #2, but we're working on it. :)





Emily









2009 was a huge year for Emily. She started the ketogenic diet in January, and has made miraculous progress! She has been mostly seizure free since March, having a few breakthrough spasms here and there. But changes to the ratio of the formula have helped. She started eating by mouth a tiny bit, right now she eats every other night (and gets the rest by g-tube). She continues to get both OT and PT services weekly and has really made some huge advances. She can hold her head up, roll, push up on her arms while on her belly, and most recently began sitting unsupported for up to 10 seconds!!!! Unbelievable! :) Back in the spring she was accepted into a program provided by the Department of Developmental Disabilities (DDD), and through them we have been able to get nursing care in our home, 6 days a week - 8 hours a day, to help with Emily's daily care (baths, feeding, medicines, exercises). This has been one of the biggest blessings of the year! The DDD has also supplemented our insurance to help with medical expenses and the cost of adaptive equipment. Last week, we just received a Tumble Form chair and a Squiggles stander. She is also having more alert time, more smiles and giggles, making eye contact sometimes, and even following us as we walk by!




Aimee and Gee-off






This year we celebrated 10 years of wedded bliss! :) We used our camper twice this summer and also took a road trip to Maine. Gee-off is still teaching 6th grade Math as well as teaching for the after school program. He also continues to give his Positive Discipline Workshop for camps and after school programs in NJ and PA on evenings and weekends. He was honored to present at the ACA Tri-State Camping Conference and the NJSACC Convention this year, and is booked to do both again in 2010. In his "spare time" he likes to host poker nights with the guys and fight bad guys on the Playstation 3. I have been able to remain a stay at home Mom this year and have been able to get Carter and Brenna out to daytime activities more often (thanks to Em's nurses and having Drew in school). I've also been more active in Mom's Club events and have been able to help out in Drew's classroom as well. I was so happy to get to go to 3 all day scrapbooking crops throughout the year and attended 2 major scrapbooking conventions. I've really been enjoying my Canon DSLR camera, and I just got some home lighting equipment to experiment with too. If only I could find some cute kids to take pictures of!!! :)
Here's to an amazing 2010 - Happy New Year!!


Friday, December 18, 2009

Christmas Card 2009

Merry Christmas everyone!!
I think this is my favorite Christmas card yet.
To all of our friends and family, your cards are in the mail and should be arriving very soon!
And to all of my "cyber" friends, this one's for you!
We hope everyone has a safe, healthy, and happy holiday and a wonderful New Year!
From top left, clockwise:
Emily, Drew, Brenna, and Carter
Drew - 6 years
Emily, Brenna, and Carter - 2 years, 4 months